Showing posts with label trp. Show all posts
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Sunday, 5 January 2014

THEY DESERVE OUR RESPECT

BY NOLAN PINTO

I have always looked up to them from a young age. Always been fascinated with their life. Wanted to be one among them but fate took me somewhere else. The armed forces till date triggers my imagination and with the few websites giving up-to-date information on whats happening, military enthusiasts like me have only that to feel a part of them.

Today, the armed forces are struggling to get the cream of the youth to join them. With easy ways of making money without having to struggle much and putting ones life at risk, why join the forces many say. The government has tried a number of ways to make the forces interesting for the youth but sadly has not been that successful. Of late though, the number of vacancies in the officer cadre which was in the thousands is slowly but surely being filled and thankfully. This is in part to the increase in the pay scale of both officers and soldiers. And also to the better ways of reaching out to the youth either through advertisements in television channels and also in papers.

So, considering that not many want to join the forces because life is tough and your always in danger of being killed, I believe we the nation must always respect them. Respect their decision to serve the country and give up their lives defending it always and anytime.

I had a conversation with a retired Wing Commander who served the IAF for decades. It was simply a normal hello and how are you conversation but it got me thinking when he narrated an incident that took place decades ago in Southern France. This IAF officer along with other officers were in France on some work and their French host was showing them the place. They had to catch a high speed train and were waiting in a queue.
Triumph at Kargil
Not many people were present but their French host, a senior defence ministry official informed the others that these are military personnel and need to get their tickets soon. The few people in the queue immediately gave them way. Wing Commander Rao who now lives in Bangalore informed the train ticket issuer that they are not from the French military but the response he got pleasantly surprised him and all the rest.

That lady told him that even if he is not from the French military, he still served his country. What she did then and there was to in a way respect this man who served the forces of his country thousands of kilometers away.
  
When he told me this, I was stunned. In so many years, I have never heard a retired or even serving armed forces personnel telling me of any such or different incident in our own country.

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Really folks, do we as a nation respect our armed forces personnel? His experience in a similar situation in India was different. While retuning from a forward area (conflict zone) on leave he sent a requisition for reserving a berth to the nearest rail head. (These were the days before online reservations). On reaching the station he was informed that there was no reservation. Repeated requests to check if any telegram had been received and that he was travelling home from a forward area on short leave fell on deaf ears. He was curtly told that he was not doing anybody a favour by being in the military and to leave the counter.

Yes, we all are equal in the civilian world and being an officer does not mean that they can barge anywhere they want to and get what they want to. But the response is what matters. We do not bother about them simple. While some news channels do try to covers stories on the forces, there are many more who look upon them as nothing but '0' TRP.
Unfortunately, had it been a politician or a film star, people would have fallen over each other to make sure they were comfortable. We forget that those are celebrities made by us, but the forces let us lead the life of celebrities!

Saturday, 28 December 2013

LAND OF SAVAGES!!

BY NOLAN PINTO



When I wake up, the first thing I do as usual these days is to check tweets. Lovely source of information in a jiffy, I can then read more in detail the stories that interest me. But something caught my eye and I was aghast. The story of a woman tourist gang-raped by 2 groups of men repeatedly for over three hours on Christmas eve.
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It was reported in a news channels online page that on Dec 27,11 of the 15 accused have been arrested so far that included a juvenile. The victim, who hails from Tamil Nadu, along with her woman relative was waiting for a friend at a bus stand in Karaikal, when a 15-member gang tried to abduct them. While her relative managed to escape, she was taken to a secluded place and gangraped. The accused let her off later.
Now, lets get to it. She is just 20 years old. I want to ask why no media channel went big on it? Did this gang rape by not 2 or 3 men but by 15 allegedly not seem juicy enough to gain TRPs? Or was it simply because this happened somewhere way down South and that it was not the target market? Or was it too down market, not your up market Delhi?
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Whatever it is, it seems the new stringent laws have had no effect whatsoever to deter rapists. Nope, none at all. In fact, we keep hearing about rapes and gang rapes like everyday news so much so that, nothing is novel about it anymore.
I mean, her life is lost. I am not being a pessimist here but just stating the facts. It will take years of counselling for her to come out of this and then she will find it really hard to trust a Man.
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What sort of a country we are living in I sometimes wonder? Where we do not respect a woman and rather have fun irritating, hurting, raping and murdering them each and everyday. Its strange since we are not born of Men but begin our lives in the womb of a woman. And its a woman who brings us up, cares for us and loves us the most, at least 99 percent of the time.
Yes, as a man,  the urge to get it out is there at times but we are civilized human beings, not dogs on the road to go hump anybody we see. I am so angry with those men who give the rest of us a bad name, each and everyday.

To make matters worse, a DMK-MLA called this some sort of prostitution. Alright, if investigations do find that it was, does it mean she didn't have a right? By saying she is a prostitute, does not mean she can be used however they deem fit.
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Sometimes I wonder, if the problem lies in the law again. Can we not especially for rape,  castrate those men? Let's do that for sometime and see how it works. I bet this fear will stop would be rapists right in their tracks. What say? After all, only desperate times call for desperate measures.
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I hope that nameless victim recovers and leads a life she wanted to, properly without fear. Easy to wish but I pray she does lead a normal good life. And those of you who are reading this, how safe would you feel venturing out on New Year's knowing that the woman with you- be it your wife, sister, girlfriend, mother could simply be abducted and abused with no one simply giving a damn?

It has just been a year since the Delhi Gang Rape. Are we willing to forget it so soon?